Relationships go through various challenges and some of these challenges include a misunderstanding with your significant other that can lead to break up. When you boyfriend breaks up with you, for most girls, the first thing thy will think of is how to get their ex back. The points below can be of great help on how to deal with a break up and also getting your ex back.
There are many articles that are available on the internet on how you can get ex girlfriend or ex boyfriend back. They give advice on what one should do if they want to get their ex back.
If you are a girl and you are wondering how to get your ex boyfriend back, the first step should be to cut off contact with him. Delete their number from your phone to avoid texting or calling them, it is also advisable to delete them on various social media platforms. By doing this you give your ex a chance to miss you and in the process they might try to reach out to you. You should avoid contact with him for at least 4 weeks, if you have mutual friends avoid hanging out with them during this period. By giving him this space, he will realize how lonely he is without you around, he will also get a chance to remember all the good memories that you shared together.
A break up period is not an opportunity for you to start hanging out with other guys with a motive of trying to make your ex envious. Don’t keep on constantly calling and texting him, it will only make you look desperate and the more he will keep avoiding you. After a break up you should not start desperately calling your ex crying so that they can pity you and in the process get back with you. This will only make your ex boyfriend to respect you less. Starting fights after a break up can lead to the break up situation getting worse than it already is.
To avoid contacting your ex during the break up period, you can choose to do activities such as writing a journal, if you have always wanted to lose some weight join gym classes, you can also start to do meditation by attending yoga classes. You can also choose to go for a vacation with some of your close friends, this is also a great time to be around your family members.
During the break up period, it is a good time to analyze the relationship, see what went wrong and how it can be fixed. All the points above apply for both girls and boys and they be of great help if you have just broken up with your ex.